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Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Escape from San Francisco

As the rain poured down, the dark clouds gathered. We were trying to make our way back to the car, but it was too crowded. Everyone had started to run, whilst covering their heads with bags and sweaters. We ran up the rocky stairs, but I had overlooked one slippery rock. A flashing light filled the sky and all we could hear was loud thunder. I tried to keep myself from falling but no, the rock slipped to the side and downwards I went. Our little expedition to the biggest tree in the world had turned into a dramatic scene. Thank god for our ability to relativize, because all we could do was laugh about it. What an adventurous weekend in California's wild nature.

No worries, my blog hasn't become a site for stereotypical short stories. I just thought I'd try this ''in medias res'' as a change. Moreover, this past weekend was perfect for some serious travel writing. ''The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn'' are nothing compared to a weekend on the road with the Dutchies - and our Italian accessory. A week ago we rented a car to drive to Big Sur and last weekend we went even further: to Sequoia and Yosemite National Park. I'll start with the last trip, since it's most fresh in my memory and I've already warmed you up with the passage above.

Sequoia National Park, I have to admit I never heard about it before, but when I checked Google Images, it looked pretty familiar: the bigass trees with the holes in them, where cars can pass through. Which is what we did, of course. For my Dutch readers, if the name Sequoia sounds familiar to you too, it might be because Bassie & Adriaan made a trip to this place too, during their America adventure. And if they've seen it, how can we lag behind? So traveling is what we did, in a car filled with everything we - thought we - needed: tents, sleeping bags, food, wine and more food. I woke up at 5.15 am, felt nauseous while eating my peanut butter sandwich, but made it to our meeting point on time. Ready to go!

Though I've never felt bad about not having a driver's licence - who needs one in Amsterdam anyway? - I now did. The landscapes were beautiful, the roads like a rollercoaster. Up and down, left and right, through the mountains. But I couldn't feel sad too long, since it was a thrill to sit in the backseat as well. We had plenty of music and made several stops, for instance to buy 6 avocados for 1 dollar. Let me say this again: 6 avocados for 1 dollar! As a student in the hella expensive city of San Francisco, this is the closest to heaven one can come. We could already look forward to a delicious lunch.

After a short stop in Fresno, where we had to pick up our rental tent, we drove further and further up in the mountains. I think I've spent more time in the car during the past two weekends than I did over the past 10 years. We'd never go on a vacation to a destination further than Germany by car, so I'm not the most experienced, when it comes to sitting still. But I survived and have to admit that the experience of sitting in a car in California is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. As I said, the landscapes were terrific, it went from rocky mountains to sandy moorlands and from sunny and warm to rainy and cold.

Because when we arrived in Sequoia, it was damn cold. I'd brought several sweaters to wear during the night, but couldn't help but fearing that it still wouldn't be warm enough. Well, something to worry about later. For we were about to see the biggest trees of the world: the sequoia trees, also known as the redwoods! Even though it was raining pretty hard, we got out of the car and went up to a huge rock that had several stairs surrounding it. After about 15 minutes, we arrived to the top and that was the prettiest sight I've ever seen. The rain had stopped by then, but the fog just came in, which gave a very mystical view of the area. I'd love to be able to describe it all, but I think the pictures will speak for themselves.
 

The rest of our day was filled with walking around and making the most random pictures ever. I climbed on top of the car, pretended to be Gandalf and we made a lovely Dutch artwork while hugging a tree. After the dramatical moment I described earlier, we were completely soaked before we got back to our tent and had to warm up with pasta, wine and marshmallows. I can think of worse ways to spend your night in Sequoia! The only thing to take into consideration was the crumbles that we'd leave behind, because everywhere in the park were warning signs of bears. At first, we thought it'd be exaggerated, probably just some precaution. When we woke up the next morning, however, we were pleasantly surprised. A bear took his morning walk behind our tent! Good thing none of us is easily scared, we were rather fascinated and printed this hairy creature in our memories. He was calm and just doing his thing. An experience to cross off my list!


Another experience I can cross off, is wildfires. It's something you hear about all the time. When I arrived in California, there were huge wildfires in Sacramento, I believe. I would never have expected to see one, however. Apparently it's been a big problem in the surroundings of Sequoia lately, because Kings Canyon, the area Dana and Veerle wanted to check out, was unavailable for public. So they joined Lavi, Emma and me on our day trip to Yosemite. Another long, long ride and once again, it was raining like hell when we arrived at the park.


It was Yosemite, though, so we wanted to check out the popular things no matter what. But first we tried to come up with some creative ideas to cover ourselves from the rain, because of course, none of us had brought any rain jackets or such. Lavi bought a poncho, but Dutch as I am, I refused to pay $7 for such a thing, so I put a plastic bag over my head and resembled a non. Before we took off, we had some cheap lunch: bread with hummus, and I treated myself to a mini bottle of red wine, just to warm up. Really.


Dana had discovered a nice hike that would take us all the way to the waterfalls, and we'd be able to see the famous Half Dome too. We bumped into two guys who just got back from the hike and they told us it was 1,5 to 2,5 hours of climbing upwards and 1 hour to walk down. The road was zig-zaggy and most of the time we had to watch precisely where we walked, because it existed of rocks only. We decided to do the trip anyway, totally unprepared whatsoever. We had only one small bottle of water, no food and Emma was wearing her pyjama pants. On top of that, Veerle had troubles with her knee, because of an accident a while ago, so we were not the typical hiking team. We felt strong and persistent however, so we decided to just go for it.
 

And a trip it was. It took us about 3 hours to go up, lots of sweat and several pauses. It kept on raining and after half an hour, we were already wondering why we did it. But when you start something like this, there's no way to stop and besides, everyone we met along the way said it was ''only half an hour'' to go. So further and higher we walked. The view was magnificent, fortunately. It was almost apocalyptic, to stand there on top of the mountain, totally isolated, with no other tourists and fog everywhere.

It was already 6 pm, though, and it was starting to get dark. Thank the lord for our iPhones, because we hadn't brought any torches either. Our mobile flashing lights had to lead us down. And down was almost more difficult than up, since the rocks were very slippery and you had to pay a lot of attention when you stepped on them. Strangely enough, I didn't fall. The others did, though, and we were happy as little kids when we finally made it back to the car. At 8.30 pm.

That night, I couldn't care less about the rain anymore. Our legs were exhausted, our eyes were tired and our minds couldn't think clearly. After the 5 hours of driving back to Sequoia, where our tents were located, I fell straight to sleep. When I woke up the next morning, I was goddamn cold and I had no idea how on earth to pack the tent, since it was still storming outside. How we managed to do it, no one knows, but around 9 am we were back in the car, looking tired but satisfied and got back to San Francisco. I'd never been so happy to rest my head on a pillow and sleep with warm feet.

If you're still reading this now - nice job! - you may have remembered that we did another roadtrip too. Oh yes, we did, and it was the complete opposite of the Yosequoia one. Don't get me wrong, I had the best time in Sequoia and Yosemite, probably precisely because of all the drama and all the laughter about it. Big Sur was a whole lot more relaxed. For one thing, the weather was insanely beautiful. It was 28 degrees and very sunny.

The route to Big Sur was totally different from the route to Sequoia and Yosemite too. Why? Because we were driving on the fucking Highway 1! Even though I don't have a lot of routes to compare it with, I can easily say that this would be one of the most sceneric routes in the States, maybe even the entire world. It goes all along the Pacific Ocean, you pass Santa Cruz and Monterey and you see the clear blue ocean, the rocks and the fog that comes and goes all the time.

In Big Sur, we spent a lot of time looking for a camping place, but it turned out everything had been reserved. A little adventure after all! We decided to just park the car at an isolated place, take all of our stuff - which was a lot - with us and make our way through the bushes to find a nice place. Just when we thought we'd have to settle for a lousy place, Veerle found the perfect camping spot. It was under a tree, with a view of the ocean and it reminded me of The Lion King. Yes, try imagining a better one. The only problem was all of the annoying insects that kept on bothering me. I seriously think they have a thing for me, and after the disaster in Berlin last year, I was slightly scared. Of course, it was fine in the end, except from about 20 mosquito bites on my legs the next morning. But hey, we slept in the open air. Something to say about that as well!

We spent most of our time in Big Sur on the beach, enjoying the heat and the chilly Pacific water. The other girls had been invited to a party in an art gallery by a guy they met at the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass festival the week before. He owned a parrot, which was the perfect accessory for some more photos. The art gallery party was quite the experience. Drinks and food were for free, so for me, it was already a success. The audience had an average age of around 60/70 and were extremely rich. It was such a different environment, but I have to admit I was intrigued by all of the botox going on there. A good example of having too much money and not knowing what to do with it anymore.

Nevertheless, I had a great time there, merely because the view was breathtaking. The music varied from old to modern. Apparently, one of the Beach Boys was performing too, but I haven't gotten the chance to spot him. On our way back to San Francisco, we stopped at the famous bridge, which I just had to photograph, since it perfectly demonstrates the beauty of Big Sur. So what's my special relationship with this area, which most of you probably have never heard of? It's one of the places Jack Kerouac, my favourite writer, often visited. He even wrote a novel about it, which is called... Big Sur. It's a very short novel and far less interesting than On the Road, Dharma Bums or Desolation Row, but it's very Kerouac and thus, I just had to see it.

So far, our weekend trips outside of San Francisco. I love nature, I feel way more calm after such a weekend and all my stress disappears with the sun. In my heart, however, I'm definitely a city girl. The idea that a city, like San Francisco, Amsterdam or New York for instance, lives during the day and during the night inspires me. I thrive off the fact that there's always something to do. So yes, I was happy to be back in SF too. Even though, the average life here is mostly filled with university, homework and stuff like grocery shopping. It's not that we do fun things all day, every day.

But, overall, there's lots of things to see and still so much to explore. Tonight I'm going to a reading by Lawrence Ferlinghetti, the beatnik writer and founder of City Lights Bookstore. He'll be celebrating his travel journals (1960 - 2010). If I have time, I might explore Chinatown a bit more too. So I guess I wasn't totally honest when saying I don't do fun things all the time. It's almost hard not to do something fun in San Francisco on a daily basis. I fall more and more in love with this city every minute. And I have a feeling that the best is yet to come.

Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Zen in San Fran

Seven weeks, already. From now on, I'm not gonna count the weeks anymore, since it makes me feel depressed. Time flies. And there's so much I haven't seen! This is my main stress factor here. Not necessarily the midterms or the essays, but all the things I have to do now that I'm in California. Big Sur, Yosemite, Las Vegas, L.A., San Diego, Napa Valley, Mexico, Canada. Stop it! Just enjoy the moment and relax. But how do people do it? My best friend this semester, Nietzsche, was all about ''living in the moment and dance''. Dancing is not the problem - as my friends here in SF have found out last week - but living in the moment is damn hard.

Anyways, you might feel that it's a big-ass luxury problem to only stress about all the fun things you have to do while being on exchange in the West Coast. You're absolutely right. There are few things I have to worry about here. I'm still surprised how quickly you get used to a new city. Directions took some time - unfortunately I don't have the same natural talent for routes as my brother - but thank god for GoogleMaps! This app saved me the first few weeks, it shows you exactly where to go, which bus to take, at what time and it brings you all the way to the bus stop. After seven weeks, I don't need it anymore to go to school (I'm not that retarded, no really) but it still comes off handy when I'm meeting friends at a bar somewhere Downtown.
I've also gotten used to the prizes here. That is, food prices. I know that it's most cheap to buy canned vegetables, canned fish and chickpeas. After my two days of sickness, I decided to completely stop eating meat, so I don't have to worry about cheap burgers or chicken. I know which supermarket to visit for the cheapest deals, something I unconsciously learned from my dad at a very young age. I buy fruit and vegetables at Trader Joe's (one pepper at Safeway costs 2 fucking dollars), coffee at Safeway and gum at Target. I'm still not totally used to the prize of the alcohol in bars, but I've decided that drinking at home before going out is a better option anyway. A bottle of gin only costs 10 dollars. And you can have a lot of fun with gin & tonics, I've found out :)
So what do I miss about life in the Netherlands? To be honest, not that much. I miss my bike like crazy, I miss the salads I had for lunch at Singel 404 and I miss my record collection. What about people? Of course, I'd love to be surrounded by my Dutch friends here, but then again, you meet so many new people, and it's fun to make new friends. Isn't that what's an exchange is all about? Besides, with the modern technology I have so much contact with people at home, sometimes it doesn't even feel like I'm on the other side of the world. Thus far my sentimental message - not my best trait, as you can tell.


Let's go the things I don't miss about the Netherlands. As the title already suggests, it's mostly the stress. Life in San Francisco feels a lot more zen. I know it's not necessarily the city itself, it's probably just the fact that I've left my busy student life in Amsterdam behind me for a while. There are a couple of reasons for the zen feeling here. The most important one is probably: more sleep. The party life here is totally different, since parties start around 10 and end at the latest around 2. Quite different from Amsterdam, where me and my roommates often got home around 4/5 in the morning, ate some tosti's, after which I slept for a couple of hours before going to work the next day. I have to say, this way of partying is a lot more healthy!
During the week, my life feels more structured as well. I never have class before 12.35, which means I almost never have to set an alarm clock. I do have to read a lot for school, and I have to write responses about every chapter or book I read, but when it comes to the content, the courses here are a lot more easier. I have to make an exception for my Nietzsche course, which is quite hard. Try to read him once, he's tough. So many metaphors for so many ambiguous concepts. But well, it's fun to learn things. I respect my teacher and with each week, I seem to understand Mr. Moustache better and better.
Whenever I do an online quiz for one of the other courses, however, I feel I'm not even taken seriously. The teachers ask multiple choice questions and the answers are literally written in the book. You've answered 10 out of 10 questions right! Oh, really?
I shouldn't compain, though. Homework takes up some time, but not that much. I run a lot here, which is pretty cool, since you go up and down all the time and you explore different parts of the city - mostly Lower Haight - very well. The only problem are the traffic lights. You walk 20 meters and you have to stop again. Ah, there are worse things.
My weekends are completely stressless (is that a word?), so far. It makes a big difference that I don't have a job here, so all of a sudden I have free Saturdays and Sundays! They've been filled quite well, though. Last week me and my friends rent bicycles and biked the Golden Gate Bridge. I felt like a little child again, so happy to be on that bike! We made a lot of pictures - gotta act like a tourist once - and took the ferry back to the city.
The previous weekend we went to the Treasure Island Flea Market, where you find all you (or I) need: clothes for 5 dollars, records, books, books and books. So guess what, I bought many books. I've decided to not give a damn about the weight I have to bring back, because 1) my parents will be visiting in December and I already told them not to bring too much stuff with them and 2) I can always ship them back. I bought many beauties I've been looking for a long time. For those who are interested: Naked Lunch (William S. Burroughs), Visions of Cody (Kerouac), Slaughterhouse-Five (Kurt Vonnegut Jr.), The Grapes of Wrath (John Steinbeck) and many more.
One of the Swedish girls celebrated her birthday in Dolores park last weekend as well, so we all brought wine and watched Back to the Future, which they viewed for free in the park. A great audience, yelling and clapping whenever Marty McFly passed by on his fabulous skateboard. On Sunday, I experienced one of the most interesting things ever: Folsom Street Fair. If you think Gay Pride is outrageous, go visit Folsom Street Fair. It's an annual fear for BDSM leather lovers. You could spank for donations (no kidding! The redness of the behinds was clearly visible - yes, that turns some people on!) and people were either naked or dressed in obscure ways. I've never felt so plain in my life, but it was definitely worth the visit!

So what else is worth mentioning? Well, I went to a baseball game. SF Giants against LA Dodgers. Leggo Giants! Beat LA! It was definitely cool to experience this once, the stadium was beautiful, but sadly enough, the game was quite boring. Since I'm used to soccer games - oh, how I love to see Feyenoord play in De Kuip - I'd expected a bit more action. Turns out there's not that much action in baseball. Never too old to learn!
I've also eaten at Cheesecake Factory, which isn't really a factory, just a restaurant for people crazy about cheesecake. But they also offer normal meals. So I ordered a Vegan Cob Salad (hipster and proud), which was huge. It included chickpeas, tomatoes, beans, beets, almonds and much more. SO good. The cheesecakes we ordered afterwards were good too, but I've never felt so full before. I thought I'd never be hungry again. Of course, the next morning I was, so I ate my usual toast with peanut butter (though I do miss Calvé a little) and hummus.
I guess that's it for now. I won't bother you with the awkward house parties we've visited (basically young people being completely wasted, while we were just getting started and the party stopped an hour after we arrived) or with more money or food related things. Next weekend is filled with concerts, so lots to write about in my next post. On Friday, Emma and I are going to one of the most legendary artists ever and singer of one of my favourite songs. One hint: Ignition! On Saturday and Sunday I'm going to the Hardly Strictly Festival, which is a free bluegrass festival in the Golden Gate Park. Some artists that are performing: Joe Jackson, Fantastic Negrito and LeeAnn Womack. Hope you are doing as many cool things as I am, wherever on the world you - my readers - are. Enjoy the evening/night/morning or noon (time differences are so complicated) and I'll keep u posted!